Maybe a good way to describe the non-dual state is to say that it is learning to trust that the largest part of your perception doesn’t use words. The part of our consciousness where words reside is the smallest part.
When the words calm down, you’re still you. You’re still there. When the words calm down your field of vision grows. Your field of hearing grows.
That’s the funny thing about it too. Because… how do we use words to describe that place where the words have calmed down. Of course we can’t describe it. We need to take time regularly to just be there.