How do we most easily come into a place of wholeness; a place of surrender? It’s a place where you’re solid. You know who you are and you don’t get swayed by small things (or large things for that matter).
So the question is… how do we come into this place? This place where the mind still happens but doesn’t matter. Emotions still happen, but don’t grab you and dissolve you into themselves. A place where you are you. Where you are in charge.
I think the first step is knowing that this place exists. Know that we don’t need to be constantly buffered by the small things in life. We don’t need to be buffered by life itself.
Life itself is is so grand. All we really need to do is look directly at it; be it; live it; be part of it. So maybe the first step is in knowing that this place exists. That every single human being has this as a birthright. This is simply being a fully functioning adult.
Maybe that’s the secret. Let’s make being an adult a good thing again. Let’s come into this place of awareness where we are responsible for every single thing we do.